Soothing Kalimaat

That's our problem For falling too easily For limiting the possibilities For thinking we don't deserve the best. That's our problem Due to not knowing self worth Or lacking self love Or not knowing we have so much to offer. Yeah, that's our problem For easily accepting somebody, afraid nobody else would replace him. Afraid of being alone. That's our problem.

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Communication is key. Meet up and talk. Pay attention to the state of your friend. Notice if there is any warning sign. Are they grumpy? Are they being unreasonably quiet? Not being their usual self? Not excited? Lousy? Why? Have they been like this or is it because you're seeing them after a long time of not being bothered to keep in touch? Is there a possibility of a toxic friendship between you? What's up? Do they have a personal problem which they'd be uncomfortable talking about? All in all,  give them space and don't push. Just kindly tell them what you see and feel. And listen... No more negative thoughts No more what-if's Because misinterpreting a situation is what makes you feel distant Especially when all you see is what happens online; not in real person Like their posts about broken friendship that did not turn out to be about yours and theirs. So, make time to catch up with them. Listen. Talk. It will clear up all the doubts a...

©soothingayat.blogspot.com Memandang WajahNya akan menjadi kenikmatan terbesar dunia-akhirat bagi yang berhak mendapatkan kesempatan tersebut Bersinar Tak tertandingi Tak serupa dengan makhlukNya Berkumpul bersama RasulNya  ﷺ  adalah mimpi bagiku Di telaga itu Dan di SurgaNya Aku tahu kau bisa mendapatkan apapun yang kau mau di Surga nanti Aku ingin memeluk Rasulullah  ﷺ Ingin kupeluk sekencang-kencangnya Dan bersumpah bahwa aku bersyukur tidak pernah memeluk nonmahram yang pernah diri ini jatuh cinta padanya Karena ada hari-hari dimana aku merindukan seseorang yang tak seharusnya kurindukan Mencintai seseorang yang tak patut kucintai Mendambakan percakapan dengan seseorang di bumi Eropa yang belum dan takkan pernah halal bagiku, wallahu a'lam. Seseorang yang pernah ingin aku peluk di hari terakhirku Di hari aku meninggalkan kota itu Walau dalam hati kecilku, aku masih berharap kali terakhir is yet to happen . Mungkin hati ini masih bingung. Tent...

I live in a country where people take promises lightly, forgetting that the Prophet  ﷺ    has said one of four characteristics of a hypocrite is breaking promises. We may have come across this hadeeth but sadly, we didn't observe. Some of us may think it's got to be the most serious matter. It doesn't apply to simpler ones. So, they belittle their 'not-so-important' promises. Little do they know every small matter regarding the deen, matters. You said you were coming at nine but it's now almost ten. You said it'd be on Friday but you broke your promise asking for the next day. The next day you ask, "What about the night, instead?" And this never doesn't happens. No matter who you are whether it be you're their closest friends or family, they're bothered. If you can't come at 9, why say so? If you can't meet your promise, why promised? Be real. Be realistic. Say in shaa Allah not but not because you don't wanna say no but...

It's unbelievable the state of the Youth. People making fun of Islam. Muslims.  Others join in without even thinking the consequences they will have to face on the Day of Judgment. I can tell that they don't know what they are saying but that doesn't cover up for them the fact that they have to make time to study their own religion. The basic. The foundation is for everyone to revise every now and then in order to strengthen their eeman . Eventually, our circle of friends gets smaller. It saddens me seeing how some people behave. They speak as if what the ulama do only applies to the ulama and those who follow. As if saying " My ustadz  does not forbid us. Maybe it's just your ulama's 'opinion', thus, for your people only. So 'respect the differences'." And another goes, "Preach to those who wanna be preached. Not here. " Subhanallah. It's painful to see your friends go from a practicing Muslim to a what they call moder...

Dulu, aku tidak pernah mengerti mengapa seseorang memilih untuk tidak menjelaskan sesuatu dan rela mempertaruhkan harga dirinya padahal satu penjelasan saja akan membungkam mulut-mulut usil mereka. Namun sekarang aku mengerti, tidak semua hal membutuhkan penjelasan dan tidak semua orang berhak mendapatkan penjelasan. It used to baffle me how somebody would rather have their dignity at stake than to explain when all it takes is one explanation to clear rumours up. But now I understand, not everything has to be explained and not everybody is worthy of an explanation.

Niat hati mengingatkan Tetapi apa yang ada di benaknya? Apa aku sedikitpun terkesan sombong karena mau mengingatkan ketika banyak orang yang bungkam dan apatis? Bahwa aku terkesan memojokkan dia yang tidak tahu? Aku hanya menyampaikan secuil ayat perihal kebenaran Secara pribadi bukan bertebaran online Namun memang itu semua bergantung pola pikir si pendengar Dipengaruhi dengan how they were brought up Dipengaruhi lingkungan (kawan) Dan kondisi psikologisnya. Dear my muslim friends, Apa yang ada di benakmu ketika seseorang menasihatimu? Apa kamu merasa terancam? Kamu merasa direndahkan? Apa kamu takut dia berhasil mendapatkan suaramu seolah membuatmu takluk? Ini bukanlah tentang keuntungan pribadi. Mendapatkan dukungan, mendapatkan backup? Tidak sama sekali. Namun hanya sebuah keinginan untuk mengingatkan akan kebenaran. Karena takkan rela hati ini melihat seseorang yang kucinta terjatuh ke dalam kekhilafan tanpa diri ini memberikan tangan Teman, coba tanyakan pad...

Ini, seperti ini aja sudah bisa digunakan, cuma ganti aja subject nya kl memungkinkan. *congrats you played yourself= ketika kamu hendak bertindak yang aneh2 bahkan hendak menyakiti seseorang namun senjata makan tuan *slide to my DM = direct message/chat pribadi biasanya di ig/twitter *i'm crying = 1.) dipake ketika ada sesuatu yg gak masuk akalnya keterlaluan 2.) Ketawa terbahak2 *what on earth= ungkapan heran thd sesuatu/benda *How on earth = heran gimana bisa *I can't asdfafhkjgjkl = kalau lagi seneng banget. CONTOH: You're meeting your faves, next week! Kamu: IKR! I CANT SGFDHSJAK *Sup? What's up? = lg ngapain? Apa kabar? Jawabnya: not much (yg artinya: the gak begitu penting atau gpp) * Gotta go = harus pergi neh. 1.) dlm artian u gak bisa nangani org yg lg gk serius ini ( u bs ngmg ini dg nada bercanda, kadang serius tergantung situasi) 2.) arti sebenarnya *I can't cope with this = aku gak bisa nge-handel ini *I can't stand him = ...

Have you ever been in a situation where you're just indecisive because you don't want to regret that decision which you're about to make? I have, well, every time I have to make a decision, to be honest, and it's stressing me out. But sometimes I realise that making mistakes is inevitable. Sometimes you just have to be a risk taker. Although, you really need to think it thoroughly first and foremost. I'm just gonna talk about this thing in my case recently (I'll try to generalise it as best as I could). From my case, I now can say that if there's something no longer making you happy, you know you can stop being part of it/doing it/being it/etc WHENEVER you want. Even if you know that you will get judged with negative comments such us your decision is wrong, stupid, and or you'll regret it. They can also hold you back from making a change by saying less harmful words such as, "Why would you  give it up? Don't! You  are really good at it!...

Terkadang kita gatau apa maksud seseorang berkata suatu kata, dan terkadang pula kita salah paham tanpa menyadarinya. Bukan hanya itu, kita juga gak mau kan mengatakan sesuatu yg dianggap gak sopan dan bahkan awkward ke bule. Mungkin ini bisa memb antu! 
 *emoji tanda 100 = sangat setuju *perv = pervert, gak gennah semacam penguntit tapi konotasinya negatif *perff= perfect *-ish =sedikit/kira2/-an contoh: it's 5-ish = ini jam 5an *y tho =tapi kenapa  *nuff said =enough said =cukup diucapkan spt begitu adanya *stalker = penguntit terutama di dunia maya  (ga follow nyetalk doang) *basic = mainstream/typical *yo! (diucapkan dg keras dan tiba2) = wey dengarkan *beaut= indah, cantik *lit = keren *instagrammable = bagus banget (buat dipost di ig) *wifey material = karakteristik/kualitas yang dimiliki istri idaman *relatable = bisa dimengerti/ngena banget/kemistri  *fam= family, kawan dekat* *innit? = ya kan? *shook = kaget * *done = ...

Oh hi! Kita tahu kalau hi dup adalah suatu perjalanan yang penuh dengan lika-liku. Tapi bukan berarti, hidup itu susah; bukan berarti gampang juga lho. Ini semua bergantung pada kita aja sih. Pada bagaimana kita memikirkannya,  menanggapinya  dan bergantung pada bagaimana kita menjalaninya. Kebanyakan dari kita, pengen cepat-cepat melampaui waktu. Umumnya melampaui waktu yang dimana, hal yang kita tidak sukai sedang atau akan terjadi. Contoh: Kita pengen cepet-cepet hari Sabtu padahal hari ini masih hari Senin. Pengen besok itu liburan semester.  Pengen cepat-cepat lulus. Pengen cepat-cepat dapet pekerjaan yang bagus dan punya uang banyak. Pengen cepat-cepat menikah dan punya anak. Pengen cepat-cepat pensiun dan memulai petualangan tanpa batas — dan ketika sudah pensiun, ada banyak orang-orang tua yang berharap mereka bisa balik ke masa muda  lagi dan merubah semuanya; so instead of pengen melampaui waktu seperti di masa mere...